The Ice Queen:
There comes a moment in a womanâs winter when she realises sheâs not becoming harder⊠sheâs becoming clearer.
The Ice Queen isnât the frozen, distant figure we were warned about,
she is the part of you who has stopped leaking energy into places that cannot hold you.
She is the woman who finally understands that clarity is compassionâfirst to herself, and then to the world around her.
Winter shows her what remains when performance falls away,
who stays when she no longer bends herself into ease,
and what truth emerges when she no longer softens her edges to make others more comfortable.
And in that stillness, something profound happens:
She remembers her worth without needing anyone to mirror it, she honours the
instinct that rises in her body before the mind has a chance to negotiate it
away, she recognises that not every invitation is meant for her energy,
and not every connection deserves access to her centre.
The Ice Queen knows this: boundaries are not walls, they are thresholds.
They mark the place where you first meet yourself, the place where you decide what can cross,
and what must remain outside the gates of your winter.
This season invites you to lean into that clarity.
- To practice the art of choosing your peace without justifying it.
- To let guilt thaw in the warmth of your own self-respect.
- To trust that saying no is an act of devotion,
and saying yes is a ceremony you offer only where it feels true.
If this archetype stirs something in you, let it be permission:
- You are allowed to value your energy.
- You are allowed to be discerning.
- You are allowed to walk away from what diminishes you.
Clarity is not cold â it is love in its most honest form.
Reflection for your journal:
Where in your life is clarity calling you to step forward,
even if others might misunderstand?
If youâd like to explore this archetype more deeply, you can find todayâs post in my free community, or my Instagram.
Have courage, dear heart
Charli Wall â„ïžđŠ
If you love to explore the other archetypes, here is a link to the beginning of the 13 archetypes:Â The Winter Witch
